How do you stop feeling crazy?

[limbo]

Down....I agree with you on the porn issue, I never had a problem with it, I didn't made H looking at it, and I would watch it with him.
However now I find that I don't like him looking at it, it has to do with the situation, that he already had another women, and in away it feels like he is still looking "for something else" by looking at porn...that being said I have never asked him not to look at it, because this is my issue, and I will work through it.
My h was defitnately looking for something else, the bad marriage at the time was what was driving that, and he found his outlet through other women...when the situation is normal, then its nto an issue, however when the spouse has strayed, it changes the whole playing field is changed.

(Yayoo) it very much is a day at a time, you have to focus on you, and your life now, your H is going to do what he wants, you can't stop him or change him. Believe I know how hard that can be, but it the long run will will help you!