Karen,

I think your H wins the AOTD (A$$ of the day) award today. If he spent as much time being a parent as he does nit-picking your skills as a parent, he MIGHT be a 1/4 of the parent you are!

I think you handled the email wonderfully. You were way ahead of him on everything. You have the patience of Job. I don't know how you keep from blasting him, but you are definitely showing who the bigger person is here. I'm glad you still are keeping all the emails. He underestimates you. I'm sure it never occurred to him that you would keep the records.

He's the crazy one, and you have the emails to prove it. How stupid can he be. Once you put something in writing, there is no denying.

Sorry for the rambling, but dang...he riles me up!

Hugs, Yoyo

PS As far as the job situation goes with the church couple, how about going down there to see if you can fill out a job application? I think it would be a gentle reminder. What do you have to lose?




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon