Thanks for sharing your sitch Limbo. I thought I was the only one whose H registered them for the site. I did manage to get the password of the site and saw the listing (when I was snooping...I am trying to not do that anymore). H did definitely list us as married and gave our actual dates of birth, etc. I believe he is really confused....

When things are going well here, he is happy, but then I think she manipulates him and then he is "off" again. Up to this point I have been fearful of him losing his job, as he is not dealing with her at arm's length any more and will start jeoporadizing his career. Now, I actually want it to happen...I think that may be the only thing that will make him see what he is really doing and the consequences of same.

One day at a time I guess....