I hate when thinks sneak up on you and set you back. It really does take your breath away for awhile. I have had a few of those.
Ok, just like my snooping because OW and exh live so close...don't look at the FB. Delete him as your friend. I know its beyond hard to not look but its only hurting you.
(((BS))))
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!