I totally appreciate everyone's honesty, as painful as it is to listen to.
I agree that he is off the deep end. Our relationship was going fine and then the marriage. He did not meet this woman until a month after our marriage and 2 months later he dropped the bomb ....coincidence? I also think she moved closer to us so that she could see him more. There have been many nights when I wanted to drive there and confront, but what does that serve? I get in trouble for hurting her (because I am so angry I probably would).
I have not and would not have unprotected sex with him...I have no trust for him. The first thing I did after the bomb was go get tested. I may feel crazy but am not stupid...thank god.
I look forward for anymore insight from you guys. I am just trying to get out of bed every morning and put one foot in front of the other to get through the day...it just sucks on all levels, but I am really grateful to all of you!
