There is a reason for him acting so erratically. My first thoughts are he is either trying to go into a MLC or he is involved with OW.....maybe both. He seems young for MLC, but I don't know that age has that much to do with it anymore. It seems that something is going on for sure! I think he is wanting to have his cake and eat it. He wants you, but he aslo blames you for everything that doesn't suit him well. My advice would be to start pulling back from communication ASAP. Only if it is absolutely necessary to talk to him about the kids or finances. Don't talk about the R.
I have to go to work. Will talk again as soon as I get a break.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
