The thing is, I'm sure I can be strong in front of him. And I don't really want to avoid him. I just think that he wants to see me and I'm not into doing what he wants anymore. It's not going to do anything for me so why bother?

He knows perfectly well that his A is unacceptable to me. Unless and until he tells me that he has stopped seeing OW and will not see her again, we have nothing to discuss other than finances.

Thinking of sending him a message tomorrow morning to say that if he wants to pick up furniture this weekend he needs to tell me day/time by the afternoon so I can run it by the house sitter (she works on the weekends too so don't know when she'll be at the house). Otherwise he needs to make arrangements to get it next week because I will be gone the following weekend also. I just want him to get his sh!t and be done with it already.

If you love somebody, set them free.
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