Yes, I would say love is a decision. There are many times in my 22 year marriage my H has given me reasons not to love him. This was even prior to the separation and affair.

However, I like many people did not take my marriage vows lightly. Throw the children in there and you have a lifetime commitment. Well, that's the way God planned it anyway. When things were tough I chose to love my H because he was my lifemate and the father of my children. I chose to honor my H and my marriage...




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon