Thanks everyone for the advice.

This has been a very scary last couple of days for me.

My kids and I developed a plan of action to protect them.

If they are at ex's and he starts ranting/raving or talking about suicide, they are to text me immediately.

We will determine by the degree of things if we should call 911.

If they feel the least bit scared, or concerned for him, I will pick them up. I am 5 minutes away.

My son is not with him this entire week due to school functions, so I know he is safe.

My daughters are at his place until Sat. night.

I talked to my daughters tonight and they stated ex is very happy tonight and seems close to normal.

I will be meeting ex Saturday at 6 p.m.

I will decide by the feel of things if I need to discuss his current behaviors.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11