Got home from work today and saw a note on my door from the W inviting me to have dinner with just her Friday night at home. I told her just because I would accept, it doesn't mean I'm easy! The topics to be covered are: kids, finances, privacy, and a divorce mediator. Nothing about us, which I think might be a good thing.I took the initiative in seeing a mediator before her as kind of a 180 because this separation was her idea. I wanted to do something unexpected and it did take her by surprise. I'm not sure she's thought out the consequences of a D. I think seeing a mediator might shake a little sense into her.
