Hey native, Sorry to hear you are having a rough time of it as of late. Sounds like your W has a lot to own up to - & isn't ready to do that yet.

Thanks native & Kenn, for straightening that out for me. Strange, how yes - the choice of words can have a different meaning or rather perception. Thinking it over a bit more, I would say that in my view as well - if someone said, can we talk, it would have a negative feel .... a dreaded feeling. Which then of course starts the entire conversation with a negative feeling, rather than a positive one.


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Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
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