Tom, I am one of them that can't say what I mean, without being mean.
I keep getting myself into problems on this board by firing on people I care about. I care about you but I REALLY care about your kids. You are messing with them. When you cross boundaries with your addicted wifey, you make your own self less credible.
When I typed to you, I thought you had no job or house and imagined you sobbing into a damp pillow in your momma's basement. Instead, I find you strutting like a turkey {midwest} and congratulating yourself about 'keeping on'.
I am here to tell you that an 'encounter' does not mean too much to a PLAYER like Wife "E". Reconsider what you are telling your children. You are confusing them very much. Otherwise, it would not matter much. You would be so happy for a minute or maybe a whole damn day.
You are good. Keep being good. Especially in bed. Did she invite you back? I hope so. Maybe you are sobbing into the icky couch pillows in your mother's basement.
What is your plan? I do not have a good one this week, so do not feel too obliged to elaborate.
Love, Flicka {I do not want to type here. Just know I do admire you even when I don't.}