You can ask me anything you like. The answers might make you squirm but fire away.

My marriage was nearly over. My wife was dabbling with a guy 17 years her junior. He was her soul mate (gag). She was biding her time until the school year ended so the divorce would not disrupt the kids too much. I learned this all through...snooping (I'm sure you're laughing at that one). Then I disclosed the snooping and made things worst.

That was 2 years ago. We have worked our way back from "over" to a reasonably loving though sex starved/challenged relationship. Sadly we are still trying to work past the strange issue that now, she wants young strange men and her mate of 20+ years is the boring same old same old. Somewhere I have a thread in Newcomers with WAY too much information in it. Some here find it fairly amusing.

I carry on reasonably well by following the advice I outlined in my previous post. To be fair though, it took me nearly a year and a half before I really started feeling well enough to be OK one way or the other.


Me 44 She 46
S13 D9
M18 T23
3 years DB'ing
Successfully busted