I haven't set goals specifically for myself, as that's kind of what got me into this mess, too much self focus and not enough on the R. So in essence, that's a 180 for me.
I know things will never be the same, nor should they be. I had the biggest wake-up call of my life when the bomb dropped, I'm still picking up the pieces. I know the why's and I have to stop beating up myself for all the mistakes I made and signs I overlooked. I guess that's why they call it a wake-up call, because I was clearly asleep at the wheel.