update: Just left the house. Wasn't good! I did confront her about the phone and of course she denied it. The charger was gone when I got home and asked her about it and says that I am paranoid and it will never work between us because I am so paranoid. I am so mad right now. She is unwilling to budge on this and it is frustrating me so bad! I told her today that I am not going to talk about R with her anymore unless we are in MC. Very confused. I love her and want to work things out, but she is so distant and absent and mean. It is making it so hard right now.
