I know what to do. Just need the support.

[MomInPain]

Never mind on the last question.

She started the D paperwork today. And although I did not get upset or anything. I did not do well. I did everything wrong. A lot of R talk. You name it I did it wrong. Oh well. At least I did not try and convince or beg or anything stupid. I just got some clarifications to why and how long. ya ya ya I know. no need to tell me. I should have known. I felt like crap all day. So I lost all hope right now. nothing left but to GAL.

[[[[noedphi]]]]
I'm with you, totally. Our sitch's are a little different, but it seems like we have the same feelings towards our s's.
I don't get much from my H when I ask any questions, even if it's just to get clarification. Just last night, after he told me he wanted shared custody, he asked me if I had any questions or if there was anything I needed to talk about. I just responded "no, you can't seem to give me answers to my questions so I'm not going to keep asking". Then he just got up and left.
Unfortunately we have gotten to a point where it is all business and there is not an ounce of caring or friendliness in any exchange. I think we are just both hurting to much to show any sign of love or caring. IDK.

Just trust that God will get you through this and you will be even stronger for it. I know that's all I can do at times, so that is the best advice I can give.