Yes I thought that too and thought you would think that.. that any 'cooling' on your part would take you even further away from what you have perhaps, at this stage, so I dont know what the answer is. But.. guess its human nature, soon as you get another man, your ex always wants you back! (in me and my BFF's experience anyway!) so its a kind of nonchalance, or switching off isnt it.
Perhaps the difference in what I 'saw' in your message then was a cultural thing, like I said.
So... are you going to give him a call, like he said!? (was it the weekend?)
