But how is that supposed to help him? I mean,he has NO control over any of that so make a point that he can do something about and don't give him the worst case scenario as he's driving out the driveway...plus you don't know her or "know" what she'll do in any of this. None of us do.
Kev will be there for them and IF she somehow brainwashes them into hating him in such a short time, and IF Kev does Nothing about it..then I guess he'll have a harder time to make up when he returns, but he WILL return.
Kev, your w will do what she does. Whatever. Surrender the illusion you had of control (which I think you did long ago). Ponder NOTHING you cannot control and focus ONLY on what you can control, which is YOU.... Your kids will someday be old enough to know what the heck happend and remember it is the UNbitter parent who "wins" in the long run b/c kids don't want to hear the other parent bad mouthed and at some point choose to be near the one they feel safe with. You will stay in contact with them and that will be that.
You are doing well. Stay on track. (sorry for the 2 x 4 stuck, cuz it's hard not to project our own stuff onto others' experiences but we have to think out all the stuff about what will help the person we are posting to...) (( j ))
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