Maybe she does not know herself, or she is not ready to open up to me completely.
And that's a really good point. She might not know...she's working through a lot of painful and complicated feelings. So keep that in mind, if she can't give you an answer, or a satisfactory answer, that she might not have one yet.
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When she said she was not ready yet to work on our marriage, I thought to myself "But you are working on it. We went to the Retro weekend, to the first post-session, we dialogue every night. That is what I call working on our marriage."
So focus on the actions, right?! 