Retrouvaille saved me - AN #3

[AnotherNightmare]

I just went out for lunch, and my Indian colleagues wanted to finally see the church next to our office building, so we ended up in an Ash Wednesday mass. And look what has happened here...

Sara,

Maybe I need to give it some time. We still have 5 post sessions, and the really "big" topics are still ahead of us. To me "Love is a decision" simply means, I decide or choose to do loving things for my W with no expectations.

There are a lot of things I do not yet understand about her. Our question last night was what feelings would be an obstacle to the post sessions. That is when she told me all that. I had to ask her several times to give me another example and to tell me more about it, and I am still not sure I truly understood everything. Maybe she does not know herself, or she is not ready to open up to me completely. When she said she was not ready yet to work on our marriage, I thought to myself "But you are working on it. We went to the Retro weekend, to the first post-session, we dialogue every night. That is what I call working on our marriage."

So patience, patience, patience is what I need here. And I need to continue to show her that I love her and want her to be happy through my actions and Dialogue.

AN