Read NUTS. Read Gray. Read DR. Read 5 Love Languages. Read For Men Only.

Take a break. Then...for you..read A New Earth...then get the audio CDs for Psychocybernetics.

The first books teach you:
-defining borders and putting to rest 'the little boy' inside
-DR is obvious
-LL is about knowing what makes your W happy
-Gray helps you detach and adjust to the loss
-FMO helps you understand the difference between us and them

Then:
- A New Earth helps you understand why people seem so selfish and how to change
-PC helps you change your self+image...build sel-esteem etc

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;