I founded hard to move on and healed as long as I know the details of stbx's life, what he was/wasnt' doing, bad enough he was in my thoughts all the time, so the best things was to just keep it all business and to the point (I'm going to ask MIL and SIL to please dont' tell me about his life either.)
It has helped me, I even cringe when he calls, I rather not talk to him unless I really really have to about the kids.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
