First off - stop overthinking everything. It will be the ruin of you.
JD - thanks for calling me out on this. Yes, I overanalyze things. It's been hard to stop myself from doing that. I appreciate your advice and really value your experience. I'm listening!
Pearl - Thank you for visiting me and for your feedback. I think it's just reassuring to me to hear from someone who's already gone through that stage of separation - to know I'll get through it, you know?
I've decided I'm going to try to post here once a day or once every few days, nothing else. I'm going to get DR and read it. I've already got DB. While this forum is an amazing source of support and a good outlet for me, sometimes it just feeds into the overthinking tendency that I've got.
I'll be here, and will still come visit you all too. Just trying to focus on ME!
lemonsnap
Me - 29 H - 29 M - 6 months T - 8 years ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09 Recovery begins 3/1/09