It takes each of us our own time to get there. So really no set time line at all. I am glad you are feeling "normal" again and are able to think clearly without emotion clouding the process.
I am glad that you are putting the focus back where it belongs! Let us know how you are doing and of course you can always come by for advice.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory