Wayward Wife/MLC or Just Bad Behavior

[fitzge]

I haven't posted in awhile. Needed to take a break. I mention (above) that my backbone finally showed up. A couple days later my brain arrived unannounced. As a result, I have strung together 4 days of normalcy. I have been able to focus on some important items in my life (my health, my children, and my legal case (D)). I finally decided to like myself again and it feels good. I determined that I needed to get very involved in my D-case. It is amazing how sloppy the lawyer-prepared paperwork is. So I sat down and read each document with great care. This allowed me to determine WW is basically blowing off Court-ordered items and doing whatever she wants, when she wants. I sent correspondence to my representative outlining exactly what I want done. I have to live the rest of my life with what is decided and put to paper.

I've reached the point where I am not interested in WW, her activities, or thinking about a future that includes her.

This transitition has taken me nearly 5 months. The shift from disbelieve to RESOLVE took nearly 4 months. When I review what I've posted, and your responses, I am shocked that I tolerated the cr*p I did.

I will continue to post every now and then -- but my focus is on ME, not stopping the legal freight train.