If she got a second phone that she's hiding from you, she's definitely cheating on you. Think about it. Why else would someone pay for a second cell phone unless they had something to hide?

That's how I got proof of my W's A. It took me no more than a couple minutes of looking at her cell phone bill to realize that something funny was going on. I confronted her immediately and she confessed to the A. This was after months of her denying there was an OM and calling me paranoid and crazy for thinking that. My W also said things like "I'm an open book" and "I'm being 100% honest with you" over and over again while she was cheating.

You should confront her, but first you'll need proof of the A. Otherwise she'll just deny, deny, deny. There may be no better example of the power of denial than someone denying an A to their spouse.

Me: 33
WAW/MLC: 33
M: 4+, T: 10+
Separated: Nov 08
A#1: Oct 08 - Jan 09 (exposed and ended)
A#2: Feb 09 - ?
1: http://tinyurl.com/mrmistakes
2: http://tinyurl.com/ckch9t
3: http://tinyurl.com/stillwaters3