My MIL told me the same thing, that it is over and I need to move on....well, I'm trying...just not that easy for me to drop 30 years and start over....
I too keep in contact with a former friend from High School who has been divorced for 8 years...never really dated anyone because he just poured what he had into his now 19 yr old daughter...she attended the school I work at so I know her well and I went to school with her mom...He and I have gone out a few times and had a ball...nothing wrong with enjoying yourself every now and again....takes your mind off things for a short time...
Anyway....hang in there....I'm thinkin about ya....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity