Glad softball was so fun! We used to do that years ago and had such a great time.
Your H makes those comments because you are moving on, having fun and its threatning to him. He wants you sitting home and crying still.
Keep doing what you are doing!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!