I think I understood what you were getting at Sandi. I agree that it's my W who very well may be trying to compete with me. I've been seen out with other women socially since we separated although my W knows that we've only ever been friends. I am worried that she might be of the mentality that since I'm doing it, it's ok for her to do it. I know she's probably going to end up seeing other guys eventually but I don't want to be the one to push her in to it by my actions. I am going to be very careful from now on about how I go about GAL.
I'm in a better mood today. Must be because it's my last day of work until I take a few days off to travel to spend time with my family and get myself a new car. Or it could just be because I have Wee Man staying with me at the moment. Whatever the reason, it's good not to feel in such a slump as I have done this last few days. Hopefully it will last. I have to see my W over the next couple of days because of Wee Man and I'm hoping it won't affect me adversely. I'll be trying to follow my own advice I keep giving PM and 'Keep Smiling'
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.