Hey Kev, How are you? How was last night with the Weeman, did he wake you up?
If you feel you need to let her go now, then that's great. BTW, you imagine that you are doing worse than her. Don't be fooled. She is not having as much fun as you think she is. Believe me. She is having a lot of emotions that you are having as well as having the huge burden of guilt. Don't know if you are like me but I tend to avoid guilt like the plague so I try to not do anything that might trigger that. Well, she is having to listen to her inner voice and it's not good. I think that's why she is going out, surrounding herself with people and family. Because when she is alone, she has to face her true self and her choices. I am totally projecting here so forgive me if I am wrong but honestly I see my H and he is NOT having fun now despite the fact that he was GIDDY when he first left. My MIL can verify this.
So take your eyes off her for awhile. Give yourself a break from all of this drama. Enjoy your lovely family this weekend and have a little fun. You earned a break!
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09