No, no, I was not saying that you WERE in competition with her about the nightclub life, I was only warning you how some couple fall into a trap of doing that. They are really trying to spite each other and it looks as though they are competing. But, no, I did not mean to imply that you were doing that. I think you have more maturity, but your wife is very young, so expect anything from her as far as GAL.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!