Hope, he will stop calling eventually once he figures out you aren't going to talk to him. If it is something life or death, he will leave a message. You are doing good and avoiding any sort of upset this might cause H. Eventually, you may feel like you can tell him about the calls but honestly since you have not spoken, there is not much to report anyway. You will know when the time is right. i'm proud of you.

Will post update on our BG on her thread in a few.

If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.