Hey Jef... wow... well done. Gosh, so that makes it more concrete. How are you feeling? You sound quite relieved, reading between the lines.... What did your two sons say, where they concerned about you? Just not shocked I guess.
Good luck later and its great you are taking all your sons skiing, the fact you will be out and about having a normal day might make it easier on them as you arent in a mess.. but it occurred to me that it mught be healthy for them and their own future R's if you did show a little emotion, sadness, tears, at the end of your M??? I dont know, but showing no emotion might make them think they cant either... (you may have shown them some sadness, I dont know).
I say all this, cos when I was 8, my Uncle left my 8 months pregnannt auntie for an OW... and the adults all put on a mask to me and my sister when they told us and acted like it was fine and I remembered thinking, but thats not fine, thats sad and upsetting and I dont feel happy about it.. but I flet like I couldnt show any emotion over it as noone else was!
So, just a thought.. might not be relevant, but good luck with the little ones...
