LE - Avoid her at all cost, she's lost the plot. Why discuss with you her future plans with OM ??? I don't get it. To rub your nose in it ? Bit sick if you ask me. My STBX made some real low comments to me when it first came out that she had cheated and I was angry and admittedly said some nasty stuff, but instead of understanding why I was so hurt, she would just throw more verbal at me....It's a justification for them I guess.

My STBX is also always asking what I'm up to. Like this weekend, I went away for 2 night and she asked about 6 times where I was going. I never say, just away with some friends. It's not her business, like hers is not mine, but then I have no interest in hers.

Not meaning to talk about my own sitch on your thread there, just trying to say I don't get why if your getting D you want or need to know what the other is up to anymore.

GL Buddy, I'm not religious but your in my thoughts