Thank you both. I'm not persuing him and I never text him first, I worry that this is the wrong thing to do. If I just had a reason for this behaviour.It's like one day he just woke up and decided we were't working for him anymore. I haven't tried to talk about our R for two days now. This morning I felt awful, he went to gym at 7am, he always goes after work.

He came in to say goodbye but looked sad, like he was getting fed up with me.

I'll try look up Ihope's threads again. Thanks


H 36 2nd marriage
me 32 1st marriage
no kids