Yes, I remember that! The sun inching above the horizon in time for lunch, if you ate quickly! And then disappearing again. And 25 foot long shadows at noon.
hey friend, sure have missed you!! wish i was up there with you instead of down here in out of the hospital.
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
((((((((BG)))))))) Let the docs do their work..... we need you to get better!
((((((Mishka))))))((((((GF)))))) I really am doing ok.... I just need a fast-forward button.
I think I have as good a handle on things as I can have... but I still am concerned about a lot of things.... especially the kids. I've got that nagging feeling that I'm letting them down, even though I really don't believe that. I think it is all normal, and not bad. But it is stressful, and not pleasant!
Give yourself and the kids the time you all need to sort this out. You'll do well, I have no doubt about it. You have weathered this mess quite honorably IMO and will continue to do so.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Jeff, I think most of us can relate to what you are going through. Your kids are old enough to talk to them. Really talk to them. Both of you together. I believe things will be ok in the end. How you handle things from now on will really be important to your kids. You are setting "patterns" and role models now even more than ever maybe. Stay strong and focused. And try to be honest as much as you can. Kids can read between the lines. xxx K
Well, in a quick change of plans the older two have been told. We found out that S20 was leaving to go up to see his brother tomorrow afternoon, so the window of opportunity to tell in person shrank by 24 hours. So we told him, and then called S19 and told him. I think you could say that they were not surprised. Even a little. I'm sure it will bother them more than it does now, but they had been predicting it. So, that's done.
We still plan to tell the younger two tomorrow evening. Then, I'll be taking them up to visit their older brother(s), and go skiing Friday. W doesn't work Saturday, if I am remembering right, and will spend that day with them. The plan is that they will be with at least one parent all weekend, and not left alone at all.
