John,

First of all, I'm saddened you and I have to bear a similar burden w/our D's, but we are both capable, willing and up to the challenge ahead of us.

I agree w/your words as well. All we can do is the best for our little ones and in time they will see what really happened to us.

For now, I'll be taking your advice and keeping my eye on the ball and focus on what is best for my growth and my relationship w/my D.

RTL

M:38; D: 6
Divorce Final: 10/6/08