Hey Ali, Yes, band night was fun. I am a people watcher so it was nice to get out in a different city, different faces. Yep, it certainly is interesting noticing the dynamics of other couples relationships.

Hey ((Julia)), I also tend to cringe like you - say nnnnoooo inside. Strange isn't it?

Thanks for the vote of confidence with M3! After he got his low class beer, I was telling him where it was brewed & such (cuz he never heard of the beer before). He joked back that he was impressed with my low class beer knowledge. I joked back that now I know how to impress men - with me low class beer knowledge. ;\) I think he does like me, but is or seems a bit reluctant with anything that may seem like a 'date'. If so, then maybe he doesn't know quite how to act either. When we chat he tells me what he's doing, asks what I'm doing, but hasn't offered to do anything together. Granted he is recently divorced, so that may play a role or that I'm still M. Oh well, I have learned patience & am content. I will take the little emotional highs I get & be content. M1 is or was a friend of my H (my H never would return his calls or do anything with him). And thus M3 through M1 is an acquaintance with my H as well.

No call from my H tonight. Although, I think I did say whenever he had time to call this week as fine. So no surprises there.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)