I think you are being reasonable and showing her you care. I really would hope that a separation could be reached because it is important to take your time making such an important decision. I read so many posts and hear so many people think that things will be better. They don't have the long term view that let them know that life doesn't really change the way they think.
I asked a few people to stop by and offer some support so if you see new posts or names, these are good people. They have been there for me and each other. All at different points. Hopefully two of the men will check in, they are good guys and can be very helpful.
Also, look up Ready2change, and Puppy DOg tails. Also, strong advisors to many here.
