Wow Trusting that list is a big list. I know you have thought for a long time that your h has been depressed. Now it is evident.

Children sometimes have a tendancy to exaggerate, so you need to talk with your son as to how he feels he is being treated. I would also probe into the physical and verbal abuse. What does that look and sound like.

So what I am saying here is you need to get the facts and then you can make an informed decision about next steps, like C for h and the kids, getting your h in to see a Dr. You will need to discuss with h once you have more info.

Good luck!


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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