T, I agree EXACTLY with Peace.

First things first. Have a talk with your son about how his father is treating him.

If what your daughter says is true (I am not saying it is not) then you need to get your kids out of that situation. He needs supervised visitations.

As for his mental well being, the courts may make him get evaluated.

I am sorry you and your children have to go thru this. (((((hugs))))))

Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009