I also agree that standing back to look at patterns (yours and his) can offer a helpful perspective. It seems as if there is a period of time that comes around for A when thoughts of you move him to call you. And I agree that your decision to wait for him to initiate helped you see that he does want to connect, just in a different time frame. Hold onto your wide angle perspective JJ! Big, big hugs back to you!
Hi L: I re-read your message from a while back. I've seemed to have lost momentum and getting impatient. Re-reading your words encourage me! Thanks for them.