Hi SoConfused. Besides having the OW over the Internet that he was communicating with, can you give us an idea of the problems that exsist? You talked about his lying, etc. but I felt you were keeping something back. Also, why do YOU think was his reason for getting so angry if he led you to believe he wanted to work on the M? Something doesn't add up. If you can open up and tell us more, maybe we can offer more advice.
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!