I really have to question what is happening to my w. She is just interested in ending our M. The S11 doesn't suffer as she takes care of him. She exercises on the treadmill every night (for stress she says). I've found no OM yet. She is sure getting ready to find someone if she hasn't already. I am the sole problem holding her back, as far as I can see. I didn't realize I was that bad of a husband to her. (I really did try to help daily and tried to be a loving guy to her, hell she was my world) I'm just reflecting, I made my mistakes.