Forgive AND forget?

[kat727]

I guess if you really want him gone, change the locks and have the horses loaded up and ready to go the next time you expect him home. I would also direct all the collection calls to OW's phone or his cell.

He can't keep you in limbo forever unless you allow him too. However you do have to be ready for it to go either way. I told my ex I was tired of the limbo and that I wanted to know what was going on before Christmas of 2007. He filed in November and didn't bother to tell me.

Hugs.

kat