So what do I do when there is backlash? I know what this is, but not sure what to do when I experience it. We've had a great weekend, into yesterday. Today, he was ok, but I could feel the "pull back" if that makes any sense. He came over for dinner with S and I. Afterward, we looked at the photos we got done with a great photographer. He loved the photos, very complimentary. Then S and I got big hugs and he left.
**Here's the wrinkle: Like most men, my H is very bad about taking care of himself beyond daily bathing and exercise. He has been having issues with his insides for more than a year now. I think it's an ulcer or something stress related. So finally I called our doctor, set up an appointment and this Thursday he will have a colonoscopy and an endoscopy as well. So I know he's not worried about the procedure and time he is going to spend on toilet. But I do think he is very concerned with what might be wrong. So I am considering that as well.
