I'm so sorry to hear this. I know exactly what you're dealing with as my father has been suffering severe dementia the last several months as well as advanced Parkinson's. I truly feel for what you're going through. It's not easy to have to deal with an ailing parent as well as a WAS. Your mother needs your strength now more than ever.
HUGS!!!
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz