Wow, 5% end up in piecing? Didn't realize the percentage was that low, but I never was a gambler. I have to believe that we have a better than 5% chance, just for my own confidence level.
I know I don't have any control over what she thinks, does, etc. It took a while, and I made may mistakes along the way, but I do get that. I'm not sure if I really get the whole "detaching" concept, but I know I have to let go and let God. I pray every day, several times, asking God to guide me and give me strength, because this is something I cannot do by myself.
How do you know when you have detached?
I'm reading N.U.T.S now, and will get the other 2 you recommended. I've read so many books with so many approaches, I feel like I have been all over the place trying this, trying that, and it wasn't until I found DB and got some support and feedback that things really started to change.
I also know I'm relatively early in the process, so time is on my side.
