Well, I must say, Plant Lady is one happy lady these days! Since I have re-introduced the "loving" Whatis she has a whole new demeanor. The woman actually seems happy to see me and instead of the forced "I guess I have to do this" smile she now beams at me. The other day I came across her in the coffee room and normally we ignore each other but instead I asked how she was, how her weekend was blah blah blah. It was a complete reversal of behaviour on my part. Every night now she leaves at the same time as I do, always smiling and waving instead of sneaking out 5 minutes earlier to avoid me. Honestly, I didn't realize how much impact my little "you do not exist" campaign had on her, she's so much more relaxed and just appears to be happier since I sounded the retreat! It's actually quite enabling to recognize that you can have such an impact on others when you let a little love shine. Sometimes you just forget that you do have effect on others and your world, I do anyway. We are all significant
