i highly, highly recommend you find a christian counselor for him. I thought I was able to handle my son's hurt, but boy was I wrong! I was saying the wrong things (meaning well of course) and not helping his aprehension. The C he sees now is wonderful and has helped *both* of us cope. Please give that a try, s8 sounds like he has some issues, he's trying to convey what he feels in the wrong way but he just doesn't know how to do it differently, a C will help him.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.